EGO

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What is an Ego? To my knowledge, ego is a state where people hate the behavior of the other person when they do not get the expected response which they are looking for from the other person and give it the name of Ego. 

I do not understand one thing when, people whom you deal with, are not behaving the way you want them to, why do you say that they have ego problem? On the other hand, when same happens with you meaning when others’ expect the same from you, you feel they have ego problem.  Now who has ego problem in this scenario? Also, you do not make any efforts to remove the ego from your life rather than you feel other person should behave as per your choice.  Why? 

My dear friends please do not expect too much from others and do not give it the name of ego.  Think twice before you give it the name of ego of unusual behavior of someone else. Are you not doing the same thing with others?

I feel everyone should have ego but to an extent that it is not hurting the other person. To my knowledge, ego is maintaining your self-respect till the time you are not making it on your head. 

Make your ego healthy ego :-) 

Comments

Ayush Mani ( kuch to hua hai) said…
ego is always good , but your ego should not be arrogance for others .
August 3, 2012 at 4:20 AM
Sujata Kalra said…
sahi bola professor sahab
August 3, 2012 at 4:21 AM
Ayush Mani ( kuch to hua hai) said…
teacher se galat bola to marks bhi to kat jayenge na
August 3, 2012 at 4:22 AM
Niladri Sekhar said…
there is a very thin line between, EGO and Self respect and often people do not understand that. n that time EGO ruled over mind n heart n everything spoiled up!!
August 5, 2012 at 11:21 PM
Sujata Kalra said…
yea, very true niladri :-)
August 6, 2012 at 10:16 PM
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