Heart to Heart talk !!!!

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I get irritated when people do not attach importance to the value of relationship. On the one hand some people have really made it a joke to relation. On the other hand, there are few people who make a relation just for the sake of keeping that person in contact. In addition, others build the opportunistic relationship to serve their own needs and purpose.   

Such a scenario raises many perplexing and disturbing questions. And, these questions are:

a) Are we not becoming too casual towards the values of relations and relationships? 
b) Do we establish relationship with others just for the sake of getting ourselves entertained?
c) Do we believe in physical relationship or emotional relationship?

I am sure that the answers to these questions will raise doubt in ours mind what we really are and how we should conduct ourselves in life. Keeping these questions in mind, my advice to others will be: Respect the inherent meaning of relationship. If we cannot do this, then what is the difference between human being and animal being?

The important point to be borne in mind in relationship is - you should not make any relation if you can’t maintain it. And, if you make it, stick to this relation till the time you have no substantial reason to leave that person. 

But, believe it or not, in this age of modernity and globalization, we tend to take the relationship for granted? When I go past to look back a time of my parent’s life, their relation was thickly attached with love, respect, understanding and trust. And, they adhered to respect this principle till the time the person remains naturally attached to them.

The present burning question is why have all of us become such a senseless, careless, and emotionless creatures?

Do we have no time left to attach significance to the value to our relations and relationship? Else, are we are too busy to give time to respect our relation? Just ponder over it, and it is moot question for you - is this what we really live for in this world or should we make a difference in the life of self and others by building a solid bond of relationship?

Comments

Anonymous said…
Hi ,

i agree with you ..

People Do understand the meaning of Relationship ?

best regards

Manish
July 26, 2012 at 11:34 PM
Sujata Kalra said…
Manish, that's what my question is. Do you give importance to relationship?
July 27, 2012 at 1:18 AM
Ayush Mani ( kuch to hua hai) said…
speechless .. not because your article is good but the question you asked ... pondering over .... not easy to reply ... ..

for me " jo tut jaaye use rishta nahi kah sakte , bas ek maanviye samvednao ka vyavaharik chhalava maatr hai "
July 27, 2012 at 7:21 AM
Ayush Mani ( kuch to hua hai) said…
speechless .. not because your article is good but the question you asked ... pondering over .... not easy to reply ... ..

for me " jo tut jaaye use rishta nahi kah sakte , bas ek maanviye samvednao ka vyavaharik chhalava maatr hai "
July 27, 2012 at 7:21 AM
Unknown said…
What a question that makes us think, believe, and do something for relationship!!! Good show!!!!
August 3, 2012 at 2:13 AM
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